It’s fourth of July weekend, the national Independence Day Holiday in the US. While the weekend usually revolves around your family, the grill, and culminates in a huge fireworks extravaganza, why not bring a few of those fireworks into your bedroom?
Low-libido gals, here are 3 ways to spark fireworks in your bedroom this holiday weekend.
Decide when to light the fuse.
With your husband, overview your weekend’s agenda. When can you highlight an hour for your own personal celebration? As a low-libido gal, I’ve found that spontaneity dampens my fuse, but anticipation heightens my desire. It doesn’t seem logical but sex scheduling is romantic to me!
Knowing in advance when you will have a steamy rendezvous allows you to prepare in advance.
You both have time to shower and shave. You can start doing your kiegels to increase sensuous blood flow in your errogenous zones. You and your husband can flirt throughout the day having a shared secret.
Enjoy the startling Pyrotechnic Display
Being startled by the unexpected boom of a firework can help your spouse seem more alluring to you! Studies have shown the adrenaline rush of being frightened can help boost your libido.
Delight in the Grand Finale
Whether you easily achieve the Grand Finale or having trouble getting there, inside information is sure to help your roman candle reach its full potential. (Yes, these are all orgasm euphemisms.) The Window into Orgasm series is full of tidbits to help you understand the delicate processes of orgasm. The more you know the more rockets you may experience.
Final Thought
Let’s not forget the divine designer of all celebrations!
“I will sing for joy in God,
explode in praise from deep in my soul!
He dressed me up in a suit of salvation,
he outfitted me in a robe of righteousness,
As a bridegroom who puts on a tuxedo
and a bride a jeweled tiara.
For as the earth bursts with spring wildflowers,
and as a garden cascades with blossoms,
So the Master, God, brings righteousness into full bloom
and puts praise on display before the nations,” Isaiah 61:10-11.
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What a fun post, Bonny!
“You can start doing your kiegels to increase sensuous blood flow in your errogenous zones.” <— that is HUGE right there!
" Studies have shown the adrenaline rush of being frightened can help boost your libido." Very kewl, I wonder if it the same adrenaline rush happens when being dominated.
Oh my goodness… good article. Kinda off topic, but I must share. On the night before 4th of July, hubby and I had an awesome session. When we were done, we laid in bed and snuggled and we heard the fireworks go off. We totally started laughing at the sound effects. 😀