


What’s Holding You Back from Passionate Sex?
Would you join me in welcoming, Julie Sibert, to Oysterbed7? Julie’s blog, Intimacy in Marriage, was one of the first Christian sex blogs that I began reading. Her authenticity and humor helped me understand that words like, “Christian,” and,...
Friendship 101: Just Talk (or the art of conversation)
Here’s why building a friendship is so important for wives with low sex drive. “Emotional libido” is a term I use sometimes to describe a wife’s desire to be sexual based upon her emotional connection to her husband. It is not physical...
I hate sex. But, I’m trying to like it.
“I hate sex, but I’m trying not to.” You might have landed on this blog because a phrase like this is running through your mind. I said a phrase very similar at the beginning of “phase 2” of our marriage. This blog was born in 2012 when I finally cleared...