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Perspective Helps Anxiety
In the previous post, Stress and Sex, I pointed out that stress not only feels oppressive but actually affects us physically with the release of stress hormones. One of the top five reasons women complain of lack of sexual interest is due to stress and anxiety....
Porn Plagued Us Until This Happened
If you’ve read Waging War, you’ll know our marriage has battled pornography. Even from the beginning, I never felt at fault for my husband's decision to view porn. It was his choice. However, the very first porn revelation led me to pursue the ‘what’s’ of porn. What...
Ta-Ta Touch
Body awareness is being in tune with your senses, muscles, alignment, aches, pains and pleasure. In dance, it is important to be mindful about your body to create the visual, moving art. In exercise and dance, it’s important to know your limits so that you don’t...
Should You Consider Flibanserin? (Will I be taking it?)
Since the FDA advisory committee voted to recommend approval of Flibanserin (brand name, Addyi) with an 18 to 6 vote on, June 4, 2015, I'm re-publishing this, November, 2014, post. The next step toward full FDA approval and subsequent availability through...
Sleepin’ is Sexy
We've slept in some strange beds. My husband, a.ka. Mr. Muscle’s, business took us to Madrid, Spain, for a week. We managed to avoid the austerity protesting. We did not avoid witnessing the horrible effects of 25% unemployment. His iPhone was stolen and there...
A Window Into Orgasm: Introduction
Eyes are the window to your soul. I like that brief soul to soul connection of looking a newly met stranger straight in the eye. Eye color is beautiful to me. It’s the trait I remember most about people. No set of eyes are quite the same. Even my set of...
Illuminated Sex
Don’t do it in the dark. Men bond with what they see while climaxing. In Christian and Sexy, we briefly hit upon the fact that male brains release feel good chemicals when they see a female form. Let’s take this a step further and contemplate what is happening in...