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Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife’s Love Language is Important
Just as low drive (LD) wives often don’t understand the high drive (HD) spouses’ deep hunger for sexual intimacy. Usually, the HD spouse doesn’t understand the LD’s spouse craving for non-sexual things like positive words, acts of service, and touch that does not...
How a Blog Migration is like a Sexual Awakening
After six months of leisurely redesigning OysterBed7 with Ginny of Design Consortium, we migrated from blogger to self-hosted WordPress.org the week of January 19. The week before this my dad took a slight downturn. So, we scooted to Tennesse because I needed to hug...
The Latest Posts!
Hi Friend! Thanks for sticking with me through the blog migration. Some of blogger's format didn't translate correctly into my new framework. I'm continuing to clean things up. I just got Mailchimp configured last night. So, you may have missed a few posts since the...
Sexuality is a Powerful Holy Metaphor – Dr. Juli Slattery
I tweeted the video below because I am part of the book promo group for, "Pulling Back the Shades," written by Dannah Gresh and Dr. Juli Slattery. "Pulling Back the Shades," or PBS as I have christened it, is the Christian response to the Fifty Shades of Craziness...
Get all 52-Weeks of Sex Drive Transformation in one spot
In 2013, I wrote a series called the Unlock Your Libido Challenge. Once a week, I wrote a commentary about different aspects of libido. The challenge was the follow through. Each week's commentary had an accompanying scripture and positive thought to pray about...
For the Polynesian Bedroom
I offer eclectic music every Wednesday for you to consider as a soundtrack to your lovemaking. According to a Stony Brook University study, variety and excitement are the cornerstones of marital satisfaction. Personally, I found when a song I'd never heard...
For the Italian Renaissance Bedroom
Why I offer eclectic music suggestions for your bedroom playlist. A Lute is a small, beer-bellied guitar. It is an ancient instrument with a long and colorful history. You can read more about the lute here. Today, I bring you sounds of the Italian Renaissance...


