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Helping Mismatched Sex Drives Become More Matched
Recently, I had the privilege of joining sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese of Fully Well, for a conversation about mismatched sex drives. It's no surprise that I spoke representing the lower half of the couple. The thing is you can move low sexual interest into a...
What’s Up with Unlock your Libido ebook?
Hi friend! I’m in the final stages of editing OysterBed7’s eBook, “Unlock Your Libido: 52 Week Sex Drive Transformation.” I have a confession. In 2013, when I started the series, I didn’t quite finish writing 52 selections. The 2015 weekly eCalendar will be fully...
For the Classical Christmas Bedroom
Why I offer eclectic music suggestions for your bedroom playlist. The coolest and smallest December flash mob I ever witnessed was in London a few years ago. There's an area on the eastern fringe of the city called 'Covent Garden.' I knew it only as a shopping area...
The Hope of God’s Mundane Miracles
Yesterday, a childhood friend of mine wrote this on facebook. “So last weekend I was out with the kids and decided that I would get a wreath to put up this Christmas. No big deal, just throw some lights on it, plug in and go. Easy enough. Except in my life, nothing...
Sample the Nectar
Two cultures came together that first Thanksgiving in 1621 to celebrate a harvest of food and relationship. Half of the English foreigners died from starvation the previous winter. The surviving foreigners laid aside their attitude of superiority to learn when the...
For the Folksy Fiddlin’ Bedroom
Why I offer eclectic music suggestions for your bedroom playlist. This week the United States celebrates a day known as, Thanksgiving. Since not all my readers are from the United States, here’s a bit of history about the USA’s holiday of Thanksgiving. Folksy...
Silver Linings….10 Unusual Things I Appreciate
Painting the Deck …. I spent several hours with my sons, in the quiet outdoors, painting our deck together. We talked and laughed and at times, we were just silent. I was sad when the project ended. So, I’m thinking fishing may have the same feel. We’ll...





