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6 Years Writing About Sex?!?
6 years ago, I started a Christian marriage blog that turned into a place of encouragement and mentorship for wives that struggle with physical sexual desire. Before the blog, Dave and I facilitated marriage classes. Unfortunately, his work schedule ramped up so...
Perfecting Imperfect
If you read Tuesday’s post, you know we celebrate 28 years of marriage this week. It’s official, for more than half of our lives, we’ve totally baffled each other. As much as I’d like to say I’ve perfected wife-dom, the only thing I do perfectly is imperfection. ...
Music for the Feisty Bedroom
To enjoy and consider for your personal playlist: Top Dubstep Drops: Epic Motivational Mix https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLyH94jNau0
Relentless Love
A divorced man at church made this comment to us, “I want my next marriage to be just like y’all’s, best friends,” I commenced to tell him how hard we worked at being ‘best friends.’ For a while, we weren’t friends at all. We nearly destroyed our marriage. We work...
The Effort of Ecstasy
I’d like to tell you climaxing is effortless, but you already know that it’s not. There are days when reaching orgasm is like a breathy, halted journey across a swinging rope bridge. It’s exciting and gets your adrenaline pumping, but it takes diligence, courage...
Music for the Sensual Bedroom
Offering you samples of eclectic music to enjoy and consider for your personal lovemaking playlist: Skyrim: Lindsey Stirling and Peter Hollens I am sorry if some devices won't open the video clip. Here is the link:...
Newlywed Advice from 26 of my friends
Newlyweds, 26 of my friends share from life experience what keeps the romance alive. I asked my eclectic (divorced, married, single, old, young) set of friends on facebook, “What one bit of advice would you give to Newlyweds to keep things spicy in the years to...



