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Ways to Align Mismatched Sex Drives
Even pastors and their wives deal with marriage messes. Beth Steffaniak, as a pastor’s wife, is honest about her messes in marriage. She writes about it at her appropriately titled blog, “Messy Marriage.” While she addresses a broad topic of marriage issues, she’s...
A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 20
Dear 20-year-old Bonny, Do you remember when you were about 15 praying for a husband who would make you sizzle? Well, God heard. Of course, you already know that you and your new husband shared steamy chemistry. Because of that, you two learn to be lovers before...
God’s Map: The Perfect Guide to Sexual Unknowns
I overplan for life. I consider every variation of circumstance and overplan accordingly. There must not be an element of mystery. I overpack when traveling. “I must have multiple outfits per day. You never know what the dress code of La Casa de McDonald’s will...
Wish You Were Here (at SheSpeaks 2014)
I made it to the airport in Charlotte on Wednesday just in time to pick up Chris curbside. What do you call a first meeting that feels more like a reunion? We managed to miss a few turns on the way to the hotel because our chatting was way more important...
How Do I Forgive Her of Past Lovers?
After Is My Husband Comparing Me to Former Lovers posted, I received several messages from men. This is in response to those emails. She’s wearing white under false pretenses. You know the truth. She was the perfect girl, so sweet and helpful and uplifting. ...
A Key to Understanding Orgasm: Deep Spots
A Window into O’s (as in orgasm) is a series dedicated to empowering my pre-orgasmic friend. The more you know about something, the less mysterious it is. Understanding how our bodies respond to sexual stimulus, helps us envision the path to an orgasm. God created...
A Glowing Reminder
The mayo jar blinked like a stop light after midnight. I was 10 years old and reveled in harvesting fireflies. The bioluminescent flash of these insects mesmorized me. Without remorse, I would smear their dayglow nubbins on random objects, even my own arms, to...