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Simple Steps To Lead You To Sexual Interest (Sexual Interest Masterclass)
If you’ve read and How to Arouse Sexual Interest Through Emotional Connection and I'm Just Not In-Love With Him, you know that building an emotional connection between husband and wife is crucial for the spouse with low sex drive! In some marriages, retaining the...
Piece of Cake….
Are you a matchy-matchy girl, like me? I like buying outfits that coordinate texture, color, or pattern. The other reason I like outfits is because they eliminate the need to make decisions. Mixing and matching pieces in my closet is time consuming and sometimes...
The Proposal
Our middle son, J, put his head together with the heads of several fine, upstanding, clueless, young friends and the team came up with a strategy of romance. Our oldest son (already married) gave his younger brother some valuable words of wisdom which solidified...
She said, “Yes!” Now What? Premarital Skills
I have been bursting to share this with you! There is going to be a wedding!Son #2 ran the ‘asking-blended-family-for-his-beauty’s–hand-in-marriage’ gauntlet. First a conversation with biological dad, then with step-dad and then with biological mom. ...
What Spurred My Thaw?
The focus of OysterBed7 is to encourage my low libido sisters. What makes a wife low-libido? There can be several reasons. But, I mainly focus upon low sexual desire due to physical, emotional, and spiritual issues. It could specifically be due to poor relational...
Treading Water
In a rare empty hour, Mr. Muscle and I recently watched a western on Netflix. Amidst a horse chase, the sky darkened and rain erupted from the heavens. The riders were winding through a narrow canyon. The canyon itself was carved from the erosion of...
12 Things My Mom Said About Marriage
I had no idea my parents were crazy about each other. Wasn’t it commonplace for dads to daily wrap moms up in a warm embrace? Didn’t all parents hold hands everywhere? What dad didn’t walk in from work and plant a smooch on mom right there in the middle of the...




