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What Is Sexual Interest? Why Should I Care?
Have you noticed I’ve transitioned from focusing on low libido to focusing on growing your sexual interest? It wasn’t anything I did intentionally. It was natural evolution. It was due, partly, to one of my Psychology classes at Liberty University. I learned that...
Sirens
As you may have read last week, I’m co-chairing a fundraiser this weekend. (See Overcoming Sexual Objections) Although our sex life hasn’t suffered, my time for blog writing has. But, I did have a quick thought this morning.I cringe everytime I hear...
What’s Your Happy?
The United Nations General Assembly deemed March 20th the International Day of Happiness back in 2012.It’s new to me and maybe you, too. Here’s a little background: “The UN Secretary General, Ban Ki-moon, stated that the world ‘needs a new economic...
He Wants a Wild-Cat in Bed. That’s Not Me.
Sexual objections aren't any different from other kinds of objections we have in life. No amount of persuading is as effective as an attitude shift. Here's how an acquaintance completely changed my perspective on overcoming objections. I'll give you a little...
Is My Husband Comparing Me to Former Lovers?
Joyfully, you said, "I do." There were no secrets kept. Emotional baggage was unpacked well before the wedding night. This is the first marriage for both of you.However, one spouse has a whole lot more in the trunk (and I’m not talking about...
When Sex Feels Like a Trap
I drove a friend to the doctor last week. The office was located on a busy Hwy in an unfamiliar part of town. As we neared the building, she told me to merge into the center lane. I didn’t want to merge into the center lane! At the exact point...
Divine Paradox of Generosity
"It's all about you, Babe." During our worst season of marriage, this might have been said with sarcasm during an argument, meaning the other was being selfish. Not knowing the context of this phrase, it is easy to hear a snarky tone and visualize eye-rolling. ...