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8 Ways Sugar Sours Your Sexual Interest
One of the simple pleasures in my life is sipping a cup of coffee while savoring a slice of dense coconut cake iced with 7-minute frosting. I might follow that with a chocolate chip biscotti, then maybe a sugar cookie coated in crystalline granules and then possibly...
Seasonally Squelched Intimacy
This is part of my book, Unlock Your Libido: 52-week Sex Drive Transformation. Read this introductory post to see what it's all about. My college aged son made an observation last night. “You cook more in the winter, mom.” He’s absolutely right. The lack of...
The Plumbing of O’s: The Vestibule
Sex is profound and meaningful even without an orgasm. The goal of sexual intimacy is to express emotional and spiritual oneness with your spouse. There is much more to sexual intimacy than just physical response. If you need confirmation that sexual...
Life Is Better With You!
Happy November! Here is a perky little tune to start the week, "Life is Better with You," by Michael Franti and the Spearheads. Take a deep breath with me and pause for a moment. We are about to hear the starting gun for the season of holidays. But, before we...
Week 43: Migraines and Sex
This is week 38 of Unlock Your Libido: 52-week Sex Drive Transformation. Read this introductory post to see what it's all about. It’s a classic. “Not tonight honey, I’ve got a headache.” Of course, as a Christian sex advocate I would highly recommend you never...
Zombie’s Can Teach Us Lessons on Marriage and Sex
Having an affinity for post-apocolyptic movies probably speaks volumes about one’s psychological profile. Is it a desire to see this chaotic life come to an end? Is it because you like blood and guts? If so, WHY? Is it a desire to see a forced return of a simpler,...
The Plumbing of Orgasms: Labia Love
Exterior Female Anatomy 101: Mons pubis, Labia Major and Minor Do you know that there is a Jewish law that forbids husbands from staring at their wives’ genitals? They can sneak quick peeks, just no ogling. I believe it is because men find our secret parts so...