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Defining Pornography
This has not been an easy week for me because the discussion of pornography is everywhere. Porn was a thorn in our marriage for awhile. The founder of Playboy, the magazine that made the objectification of the female form more publicly acceptable, passed away a few...
Week 18: Make Hay While the Sun Shines
If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)There’s a symphony playing through our...
Week 17: Sex Drive Transformation (welcome)
If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)Around this time of year, it’s easy to...
Week 16: I Give Myself Permission
If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE. (Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.) Low libido wives are not sexually inadequate as the...
Week 15: Sex Drive Transformation (applaud)
If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)Last week, I noticed that my neighbor’s...
Week 14: Sex Drive Transformation (Feel)
If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)Congratulations! We have completed...
Out Of The Shell
Anonymity was the answer a year ago. God compelled me to share the hope my marriage has received regarding sexual intimacy stumbling blocks, but I wasn’t sure where it would ultimately lead. Anonymity allowed me to wander while writing about Christian marital...





