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Virgin Bride Wedding Night Tips: What Do I Do? What Will It Feel Like?
Do you have the same kind of questions as this sweet young friend? “I’m about to get married next month and I have no clue about sex. What do I do? What will it feel like? Even though I had the sex talk in school, it still all seems very mysterious to me. ...
Winds of Change: A Husband’s Profound Influence on Her Sex Drive
I normally write to wives struggling with low sexual interest but today I'm veering off to speak to husbands. My heart has been touched by recent emails I’ve received from men who are desperately in love with their wives and hurting. Their wives do not realize the...
A Quantum Leap Toward Libido
A Quantum Leap Towards Libido Do you believe you are powerless when it comes to your sexual interest? Figuring either you have it or you don't? Sexual interest isn't either/or. You can re-build it, if you decide to make the effort. In rebuilding, however,...
Mistletoe
Have you ever wondered, “What about this bunch of dried up herbs inspires kissing??” Parched mistletoe we find in the store is nothing like what was venerated by the Druids. Fresh mistletoe is a glossy green freeloader in the treetop. It retains its...
Sex Scheduling Can Lead to Romance
Intentionally carving out time for lovemaking is not a new concept. We all nod our heads to the logical argument; appointments are made for an oil change, teeth cleaning, and colonoscopy. But, we set aside no time for marital sexual intimacy. Does our marriage not...
Be Balanced
In my last post (Menopausal Snake Oil?), I shared how and why I came to the decision to use bioidentical hormones to ease peri-menopausal symptoms and restore my libido. A big part of this journey was pinpointing a doctor with adequate knowledge of their...
Bioidentical Hormones: Menopausal Snake Oil?
Operation resuscitation began because my interest in sex was DOA. Operation resuscitation was my ‘one decision.’ I needed to take charge of my waning libido and other peri-menopausal symptoms. While in the scouting phase of my mission, through the hands of my dear...