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How to Arouse Sexual Desire through Emotional Connection
Welcome to the Sexual Interest Masterclass. This is the introductory post of a series to help marriages with mismatched sex drives. I’m driven by my emotional libido more than my physical libido. Most of us want to experience the raw, burning passion of sexual heat. ...
2 Players, No Substitutions
Pearl fits into a girl stereotype. I’m not that into sports. Participating in the ceremonial pursuit of a little ball through space is not appealing, even if points are earned. Fun is more important than points. And since corn-hole isn’t an...
Best Kept Secret to Lift Low Female Libido
My low-libido intervention started in a small room in my heart. Not with a close cluster of good friends and family, just the Holy Spirit urging me to embrace this part of marriage with irreverent reverence. Today I offer just one suggestion for your...
God Is Not Anti-Beauty
Ever felt bogged down trying to come to terms with the spiritual nature of our fleshy selves? How do we juggle the dual nature of body & soul? Becoming His Eve's, Hannah, is a sweet soul sister and I am energized by her blog's perspective. She has graciously...
Superheroes Defrocked
In the life of a marriage, at some point, the Superhero reveals the inner complexities of his/her psyche. Batman’s underpinning really isn’t about justice. He’s about serving revenge against those who murdered his parents. Mystique uncloaks to reveal her blue form...
Oysters and Sauerkraut
Well, surely you knew there had to be a post sooner or later about OYSTERS as aphrodisiacs. Pearl is NOT an oyster fan (cannibalism and all...*wink*). I believe where there is smoke, there is fire. Old Wives Tales usually contain an element of...
Walking on Eggshells or Sunshine?
Is there someone in your life that you refrain from sharing much of your inner thoughts with because of fear of their reaction? There was a time in our marriage that my husband walked on eggshells whenever discussing problematic issues with me. I had a tendency to go...





