


Will I Ever (physically) Yearn for Sex, Again?
You probably know from experience that when sex is not a point of conflict and happens frequently, the sharp edges of your marriage are creamy and pliable. Harmonious living is great. Honoring God’s design is wonderful. These are good reasons to be willing to romp....
Work of the Heart
Can it really be called work, the commitment we put into our marriages? Yes. Hopefully, the work is only intermittent and harmony is abundant. But, there are inevitably seasons of real hard work. It’s a different kind of work than the daily toil of going to the...
The Effort of Ecstasy
I’d like to tell you climaxing is effortless, but you already know that it’s not. There are days when reaching orgasm is like a breathy, halted journey across a swinging rope bridge. It’s exciting and gets your adrenaline pumping, but it takes diligence, courage...
God’s Map: The Perfect Guide to Sexual Unknowns
I overplan for life. I consider every variation of circumstance and overplan accordingly. There must not be an element of mystery. I overpack when traveling. “I must have multiple outfits per day. You never know what the dress code of La Casa de McDonald’s will...