


What’s Holding You Back from Passionate Sex?
Would you join me in welcoming, Julie Sibert, to Oysterbed7? Julie’s blog, Intimacy in Marriage, was one of the first Christian sex blogs that I began reading. Her authenticity and humor helped me understand that words like, “Christian,” and,...
Friendship 101: Just Talk (or the art of conversation)
Here’s why building a friendship is so important for wives with low sex drive. “Emotional libido” is a term I use sometimes to describe a wife’s desire to be sexual based upon her emotional connection to her husband. It is not physical...
I hate sex. But, I’m trying to like it.
“I hate sex, but I’m trying not to.” You might have landed on this blog because a phrase like this is running through your mind. I said a phrase very similar at the beginning of “phase 2” of our marriage. This blog was born in 2012 when I finally cleared...
A Husband Asks, “How to Build Adventure in the Bedroom?”
Should wives with low sexual interest consider adventure in the bedroom? Although this blog is intended for wives with low sexual interest, a lot of their husbands are reading, too. Husbands are trying to figure out their wives. Here’s a message I recently...