


The Heart of the Bikini Clad
‘Tis Summer. Hoards of people blanket the beach, lots of them in bikinis. My home is in a warm weather climate where shorts, flip flops, and tank tops are worn year round. Frankly, the heat is unbearable if you wear much more. Modesty levels can be affected by...
5 Questions to Create a Sexual Encounter Schedule
Although my intended audience is low-libido wives, after answering a curious husband’s question on 13 Ways My Husband Influenced My Sex Drive, another husband has emailed me with a question. He says, “I’ve sent my wife a couple of your articles recently. They have...
Take a Little Grit and Become a Pearl
People have asked me why I named this blog OysterBed7. Even though I write about sex a lot, it had little to do with being an aphrodisiac and much to do with lustrous pearls. When a piece of grit (sand or bacteria) annoys an oyster, the oyster secretes...
WHY SEX?
I like to know, “Why?” And I lean toward the scientific side. When my libido did a Houdini and disappeared, I wondered whether I’d ever again physically yearn for sex and questioned why a libido was necessary? I went as far to question why sex was even...