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How Do I Forgive Her of Past Lovers?

by Bonny Burns | Jul 24, 2014 | Former Lovers, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy

After Is My Husband Comparing Me to Former Lovers posted, I received several messages from men. This is in response to those emails. She’s wearing white under false pretenses. You know the truth. She was the perfect girl, so sweet and helpful and uplifting. ...

A Glowing Reminder

by Bonny Burns | Jul 10, 2014 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy

The mayo jar blinked like a stop light after midnight. I was 10 years old and reveled in harvesting fireflies. The bioluminescent flash of these insects mesmorized me. Without remorse, I would smear their dayglow nubbins on random objects, even my own arms, to...

More Life Outside of OysterBed7

by Bonny Burns | Apr 8, 2014 | Bonny's Journey, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Uncategorized

If you saw yesterday’s post, I shared about our Alaskan cruise. Today, will be random shares. The rest of our life is probably not much different from yours. This is the view to and from our front door! Come on in! This is my office/spare bedroom. Notice...

Happy 2nd Blogversary, OysterBed7

by Bonny Burns | Apr 4, 2014 | Blogging, Bonny's Journey, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive

Happy 2nd blogversary, OysterBed7! What I have to offer this year is nothing like the juicy revelation of last anniversary when I shared my whole entire identity, including the identity of my husband, since we are halves of the same whole. I also shared 25...

Divine Paradox of Generosity

by Bonny Burns | Jan 31, 2014 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Valentine's Day

“It’s all about you, Babe.” During our worst season of marriage, this might have been said with sarcasm during an argument, meaning the other was being selfish. Not knowing the context of this phrase, it is easy to hear a snarky tone and visualize...

Tender of Heart

by Bonny Burns | Dec 26, 2013 | Bonny's Journey, Christmas, Depression, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mental Health, Prayer

“Christmas is a time you get homesick, even when you’re at home,” Carol Nelson. I wouldn’t have understood that statement a few years ago. I wouldn’t have understood how your heart can become tender and wistful and nostalgic and yet, not desolate. I roll sweet...

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