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Team Work Makes the Dream Work (and how the 59 “One Another” Bible Passages can help your sex life)

by Bonny Burns | Nov 8, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

Disclaimers This post is intended for marriages where both spouses are good-willed, even if sexless. When in conflict, at times, your spouse may be grumpy and behave badly, just as you probably do. At each of your cores, however, you are loving and have only good...

Personal Lubricant 101 (a.k.a. There’s No Slip Without The Slide)

by Bonny Burns | Jul 12, 2019 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Lubricants

(This post, shockingly, contains affiliate links. *wink*) “You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon,” Solomon says as he admires his bride (SOS 4:15). The best lovemaking has just enough blissful friction to allow sexual tension...

Sex’s Primary Job is Not Lust Management

by Bonny Burns | Jun 19, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Pornography, Sexual Interest, Sexual Intimacy

Having dealt with pornography in our marriage, a reader recently asked me to respond to the idea that it is the wife’s obligation to keep her husband sexually satisfied so that he won’t lust. She asks, “What responsibility does the husband have to manage his...

What’s Holding You Back from Passionate Sex?

by Bonny Burns | May 23, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy, Why Sex

Would you join me in welcoming, Julie Sibert, to Oysterbed7? Julie’s blog, Intimacy in Marriage, was one of the first Christian sex blogs that I began reading. Her authenticity and humor helped me understand that words like, “Christian,” and,...

Friendship 101: Just Talk (or the art of conversation)

by Bonny Burns | May 8, 2019 | Emotional Libido, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Uncategorized

Here’s why building a friendship is so important for wives with low sex drive. “Emotional libido” is a term I use sometimes to describe a wife’s desire to be sexual based upon her emotional connection to her husband. It is not physical...

I hate sex. But, I’m trying to like it.

by Bonny Burns | May 2, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy

“I hate sex, but I’m trying not to.” You might have landed on this blog because a phrase like this is running through your mind. I said a phrase very similar at the beginning of “phase 2” of our marriage. This blog was born in 2012 when I finally cleared...

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