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Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife’s Love Language is Important

by Bonny Burns | May 17, 2018 | Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy

Just as low drive (LD) wives often don’t understand the high drive (HD) spouses’ deep hunger for sexual intimacy. Usually, the HD spouse doesn’t understand the LD’s spouse craving for non-sexual things like positive words, acts of service, and touch that does not...

Happy Mother’s Day 2018!

by Bonny Burns | May 13, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy, Special Days

We may not all be mama’s, but we all had a mama. Here’s to all the mama’s who are keeping it real, keeping it together, and keeping it moderately spicey in the bedroom. 🙂...

Getting in the Mood

by Bonny Burns | May 9, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sex Chat 4 Christian Wives

Today, I share two Sex Chat for Christian Wives’ podcast episodes. They are brimming with advice to get steamy for some lovemaking. Check them out! Getting in the Mood – This is our very first episode! Getting in the Mood 2 – This is our most recent...

Helping Mismatched Sex Drives Become More Matched

by Bonny Burns | May 2, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive

Recently, I had the privilege of joining sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese of Fully Well, for a conversation about mismatched sex drives. It’s no surprise that I spoke representing the lower half of the couple. The thing is you can move low sexual interest...

Fear Not, Be Assured About Sex

by Bonny Burns | Apr 29, 2018 | Less Stress, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Word of God

Through all of my anxiety, in spite of my cheerful demeanor, I am majorly stressed out and anxious. Intellectually, I know this isn’t where God wants me to be. This reminds me of the season when sex majorly stressed me out. Intellectually, I knew that lack of sexual...

The Back Door (my take on anal sex)

by Bonny Burns | Apr 25, 2018 | Anal Play, Anal Sex, Anatomy, Difficult Topic, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive

Several of you have asked that I begin to address some more difficult topics, such as; oral sex, anal sex, sex toys, premarital sex, infidelity, pornography. Before I begin to address any difficult topic, I want you to be aware that the overarching goal of this blog...

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