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Santa Baby Bedroom Soundtrack Playlist

by Bonny Burns | Dec 15, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sensual Music, Sexual Intimacy

Does music stir your soul and affect your mood? It does mine. Music can stimulate the same parts of the brain as food and sex. Music can change the atmosphere of a ‘rendezvous’ in a drum beat. That’s why I began offering Bedroom Soundtracks,...

Permission to Feel Beautiful

by Bonny Burns | Dec 10, 2015 | Emotional Libido, Guest Posting, HotHolyHumorous, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive

For a long while I was not in a good place with sexual intimacy and part of the struggle was trying to reconcile the inner beauty/outer beauty mindset. Scripture seemed to tell me inner beauty was the only thing of value. However, my husband likes me wearing makeup...

I Love Gently Blunt Sex Conversations

by Bonny Burns | Nov 19, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

Yesterday, we discussed how to approach a conversation about sexual intimacy. Why have this conversation if you are a low sex-drive spouse? As much as we low-libido’s like to deny it, sex really is part of a thriving marriage. If you keep avoiding sex,...

I Love Starting the Sex Conversation

by Bonny Burns | Nov 18, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

There’s this marriage. One spouse is dying to get horizontal and the other is running to stay vertical. They both know that sex is a problem, yet have never had a sane discussion about it. Here’s the first step to turn a near sexless marriage into a...

I Love Laughter Leads to Sexual Interest

by Bonny Burns | Nov 16, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Just For Fun, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Science of Sex

“Because he makes me laugh,” is one of the most common responses for why we fall in love. I love to laugh and wanted to laugh with my prat-falling, pun-meister, Dave, for the rest of our lives. I gasped, then laughed, the moment I first met Dave and he didn’t say a...

I Love Learning to Pray for Sexual Intimacy

by Bonny Burns | Nov 12, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Prayer, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

I would have rather slammed my pinky finger in the car door than to have talked about sex. The ‘talks’ my husband and I were having about sex, weren’t really ‘talks’ but anger fueled spats. We didn’t know how to have an actual conversation without it being...

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