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Goals to Grow Your Sexual Interest

by Bonny Burns | Jan 16, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive, New Year's, Sexual Intimacy

OK, I know I was wrong to laugh. Hanging near the entry of their home was a list of marriage and family goals written in calligraphy on parchment. Their goals were beautiful, biblical, and specific. However, they made me feel smothered and uncomfortable. In...

Want Sexual Interest to Grow? Eliminate These

by Bonny Burns | Jun 7, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive, Sexual Interest

If you are in a marriage with mismatched sex drives, it’s imperative to understand about love languages. That’s why not long ago I wrote “Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife’s Love Language Is Important.” Speaking a person’s “love language,” is also known as making...

Helping Mismatched Sex Drives Become More Matched

by Bonny Burns | May 2, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive

Recently, I had the privilege of joining sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese of Fully Well, for a conversation about mismatched sex drives. It’s no surprise that I spoke representing the lower half of the couple. The thing is you can move low sexual interest...

Ways to Align Mismatched Sex Drives

by Bonny Burns | Mar 13, 2018 | Guest Posting, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive

Even pastors and their wives deal with marriage messes. Beth Steffaniak, as a pastor’s wife, is honest about her messes in marriage. She writes about it at her appropriately titled blog, “Messy Marriage.” While she addresses a broad topic of marriage issues, she’s...

Move Mismatched Sex Drives Toward Better

by Bonny Burns | Feb 3, 2017 | Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive

The whole reason this blog is in existence is because Dave and I survived over a decade of mismatched sex drives. I say, “Survived!” because at times it felt like a war. What’s a mismatched sex drive? Basically, one spouse wants to make love with a whole lot more...

Winds of Change: A Husband’s Profound Influence on Her Sex Drive

by Bonny Burns | Jan 8, 2013 | Emotional Libido, Husbands, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive

I normally write to wives struggling with low sexual interest but today I’m veering off to speak to husbands. My heart has been touched by recent emails I’ve received from men who are desperately in love with their wives and hurting. Their wives do not realize...

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