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Finding Courage to Face the Pain of Pornography

by Bonny Burns | Jan 19, 2016 | Bonny's Journey, Inspire, Pornography, Sexual Pollution/Immorality

With our 2-year-old son asleep in the next room, I try to haul my pregnant belly into bed. I’m 35 weeks ginormous with identical twin boys. I lift my feet off the floor just as I hear the sound of a freight train outside, the tell-tale sign of a tornado. A...

Hello, 2016!

by Bonny Burns | Jan 1, 2016 | Bonny's Journey, Less Stress, Mental Health

Thanks for letting me whine yesterday in saying, ‘Farewell, 2015.’ Hello, 2016! I’ve seen two truths from coping with my stressful 2015 as a low-libido gal. First truth: Remain in constant contact with God and your husband. It’s easy to get overwhelmed and reduce...

Farewell, 2015

by Bonny Burns | Dec 31, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Relational Intimacy

Happy New Year! While all the other more organized blogs are offering helpful advice for a more sane and sexier 2016, I’d like to ask a gift from you. I’ve been waiting to get this off my chest. If you’ve wondered why my posts were sporadic this year, here’s the...

I Love Learning to Pray for Sexual Intimacy

by Bonny Burns | Nov 12, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Prayer, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

I would have rather slammed my pinky finger in the car door than to have talked about sex. The ‘talks’ my husband and I were having about sex, weren’t really ‘talks’ but anger fueled spats. We didn’t know how to have an actual conversation without it being...

I Love the Destination

by Bonny Burns | Nov 11, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Travel

I’m writing you from gate C6. I’m flying to meet my granddaughter for the very first time. I’d almost, almost, rather endure my yearly visit to the gyn, than get on this oversized bumblebee. Flying is not my favorite. This didn’t used to be the case. My...

I Love God Made High Drive Spouses and Low Drive Spouses to Fill Each Other’s Gaps

by Bonny Burns | Nov 5, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Ezer K'negdo, High Drive Wife, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

I received my formal education during a time when it was thought there were no radical biological/psychological differences between male and female. Males and females took on certain traditional roles because that is what was taught. I embraced this theory because it...

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