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I Love Knowing When Sex is Going to Happen

by Bonny Burns | Nov 20, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy

This is the last installment of Bonny’s, ‘chicken’s guide to talking turkery about sex with your husband.’* See, “I Love Starting the Sex Conversation,” and, “I Love Compassionate Blunt Sex Talk.” “How often?” Is likely to be your high drive spouse’s biggest...

I Love Gently Blunt Sex Conversations

by Bonny Burns | Nov 19, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

Yesterday, we discussed how to approach a conversation about sexual intimacy. Why have this conversation if you are a low sex-drive spouse? As much as we low-libido’s like to deny it, sex really is part of a thriving marriage. If you keep avoiding sex,...

I Love Starting the Sex Conversation

by Bonny Burns | Nov 18, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

There’s this marriage. One spouse is dying to get horizontal and the other is running to stay vertical. They both know that sex is a problem, yet have never had a sane discussion about it. Here’s the first step to turn a near sexless marriage into a...

Here, Have a Laugh! (Tim Hawkins Video)

by Bonny Burns | Nov 17, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy

Yesterday: I Love Laughing Leads to Sexual Desire Today: Here, Have a Laugh! Yesterday, I talked about all the benefits of laughter. Did you know laughter and orgasm go hand in hand? What if you are having trouble pumping up laughter from the deep well of your...

I Love Laughter Leads to Sexual Interest

by Bonny Burns | Nov 16, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Just For Fun, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Science of Sex

“Because he makes me laugh,” is one of the most common responses for why we fall in love. I love to laugh and wanted to laugh with my prat-falling, pun-meister, Dave, for the rest of our lives. I gasped, then laughed, the moment I first met Dave and he didn’t say a...

I Love “Friendship Closes Its Eyes”

by Bonny Burns | Nov 13, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy

The faults of our lover are invisible during the sweet juicy tingle of first love. It’s not just denial. First love is completely oblivious to failings. It’s a neurochemical thing. Give marriage a few years and faults blink like an annoying...

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