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Is My Husband Comparing Me to Former Lovers?

by Bonny Burns | Mar 4, 2014 | Former Lovers, Pre-Marital, Sexual Intimacy, Sexual Pollution/Immorality

Joyfully, you said, “I do.” There were no secrets kept. Emotional baggage was unpacked well before the wedding night. This is the first marriage for both of you.However, one spouse has a whole lot more in the trunk (and I’m not talking...

Divine Paradox of Generosity

by Bonny Burns | Jan 31, 2014 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Valentine's Day

“It’s all about you, Babe.” During our worst season of marriage, this might have been said with sarcasm during an argument, meaning the other was being selfish. Not knowing the context of this phrase, it is easy to hear a snarky tone and visualize...

Thanksgiving in the Bedroom

by Bonny Burns | Nov 26, 2013 | Dynamic Marriage, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy

Some marriages are born with two partners who possess ‘marriage intuition.’ Relational understanding comes easy for them. My husband and I did not possess this intuition. As weird as it is to say, I’m thankful for the time I felt desperate and alone in our marriage....

Trust

by Bonny Burns | Sep 20, 2013 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Science of Sex, Sex Drive Transformation, Sexual Intimacy

This is week 37 of Unlock Your Libido: 52-week Sex Drive Transformation. Read this introductory post to see what it’s all about. “Mess with a woman’s sense of trust and you mess with her lust,” Dr. Robert Glover. As low libido gals, we have to absolutely...

Awaken the Super in Your Man: Love, Honor and Respect

by Bonny Burns | Aug 27, 2013 | Becoming His Eve/Hannah, Guest Author, Relational Intimacy

OysterBed7 once again welcomes, Hannah, from Becoming His Eve! Hannah is a perky kindred spirit. She has graciously offered a series of posts while I am traveling for family obligations. Hannah’s writing talent and her spiritual gift of encouragement...

Awaken the Super in Your Man: Take Him Seriously

by Bonny Burns | Aug 20, 2013 | Becoming His Eve/Hannah, Guest Author, Relational Intimacy

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