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13 Ways My Husband Influenced My Sex Drive

by Bonny Burns | Feb 23, 2016 | Bonny's Journey, Dynamic Marriage, Emotional Libido, Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

Although my intended audience is low-libido wives, recently a husband left this comment, “I read your blog to help me understand my no drive wife…..….There is no hope after so many years of this. I know everyone’s different but any insight into what your husband did...

I Love Gently Blunt Sex Conversations

by Bonny Burns | Nov 19, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

Yesterday, we discussed how to approach a conversation about sexual intimacy. Why have this conversation if you are a low sex-drive spouse? As much as we low-libido’s like to deny it, sex really is part of a thriving marriage. If you keep avoiding sex,...

I Love Starting the Sex Conversation

by Bonny Burns | Nov 18, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

There’s this marriage. One spouse is dying to get horizontal and the other is running to stay vertical. They both know that sex is a problem, yet have never had a sane discussion about it. Here’s the first step to turn a near sexless marriage into a...

I Love God’s Glory in the Bedroom

by Bonny Burns | Nov 8, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Warfare, Word of God

There are seasons of Babylonian exile in marriage. The Lord’s presence seems far away. We yearn for comfort. Ezekiel is a prophet living among the exiles in Babylon. His message is from God to the exiled nation of Israel. Worshipping false gods has...

I Love God Made High Drive Spouses and Low Drive Spouses to Fill Each Other’s Gaps

by Bonny Burns | Nov 5, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Ezer K'negdo, High Drive Wife, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy

I received my formal education during a time when it was thought there were no radical biological/psychological differences between male and female. Males and females took on certain traditional roles because that is what was taught. I embraced this theory because it...

Hidden Libido Treasure in Michele Weiner-Davis Video

by Bonny Burns | Oct 27, 2015 | Emotional Libido, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Sexless Marriage

I’m sorry I’ve been MIA. If you follow me on twitter or facebook, you may have seen some posts regarding our relocation to FL. Yep, we are moving further south. Good thing my blood is already pretty thin and tolerates heat well. Our moving preparations had...

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