A Key to Understanding Orgasm: The Exquisite Clitoris and Company
A Window into O’s (as in orgasm) is a series dedicated to my friends who are in a state of pre-orgasm. They have not experienced an orgasm, yet. 10-15% of women say they have never had the experience. (Please see, A Window into O’s: Introduction) It would be easy...
He Wants a Wild-Cat in Bed. That’s Not Me.
Sexual objections aren’t any different from other kinds of objections we have in life. No amount of persuading is as effective as an attitude shift. Here’s how an acquaintance completely changed my perspective on overcoming objections. I’ll give...
Is My Husband Comparing Me to Former Lovers?
Joyfully, you said, “I do.” There were no secrets kept. Emotional baggage was unpacked well before the wedding night. This is the first marriage for both of you.However, one spouse has a whole lot more in the trunk (and I’m not talking...
When Sex Feels Like a Trap
I drove a friend to the doctor last week. The office was located on a busy Hwy in an unfamiliar part of town. As we neared the building, she told me to merge into the center lane. I didn’t want to merge into the center lane! At the exact point...


