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What’s Holding You Back from Passionate Sex?

by Bonny Burns | May 23, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy, Why Sex

Would you join me in welcoming, Julie Sibert, to Oysterbed7? Julie’s blog, Intimacy in Marriage, was one of the first Christian sex blogs that I began reading. Her authenticity and humor helped me understand that words like, “Christian,” and,...

Juli Slattery’s 25 Answers Are Excellent

by Bonny Burns | Dec 29, 2015 | Book & Movie Review, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Juli Slattery author, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy, Why Sex

A rep for Moody Publishers reached out and asked me to review Juli Slattery’s latest book, “25 Questions you’re Afraid to ask about Love, Sex, and Intimacy.” I finished reading it a few days ago on our drive to Florida. Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist. ...

Illuminated Sex

by Bonny Burns | Jul 15, 2015 | Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Pornography, Science of Sex, Sexual Intimacy, Why Sex

Don’t do it in the dark. Men bond with what they see while climaxing. In Christian and Sexy, we briefly hit upon the fact that male brains release feel good chemicals when they see a female form. Let’s take this a step further and contemplate what is happening in...

Top 10 Sexplanations: How to Turn on Your Sex-Drive

by Bonny Burns | Nov 13, 2014 | Science of Sex, Why Sex

God’s intricate design of our brains amazes me. I marvel at the science of our bodies and how it relates to our sexual interest. I can never learn enough about it and how it can be applied to arousing my purrrr. Maybe that’s why I’ve been called a sex nerd. I love...

A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 20

by Bonny Burns | Aug 5, 2014 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Newlywed, Sexual Interest, Why Sex

Dear 20-year-old Bonny, Do you remember when you were about 15 praying for a husband who would make you sizzle? Well, God heard. Of course, you already know that you and your new husband shared steamy chemistry. Because of that, you two learn to be lovers before...

Bonny Logsdon Burns

Hi, I’m Bonny. You’ll find understanding here for your struggle with sexual intimacy in marriage because I struggle, too. Whether your low sex drive is from a physical or emotional place, you’lI find gentle encouragment to consider the many dimensions of desire. Contact me at pearlmail3 @ gmail.com. Read more about me here, Blog Policies here.

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