As Dave and I began to mend our broken marriage, we pleaded with God for help. Apparently, God heard our urgency because he started to do some unveiling. He let me peek into Dave’s heart. For a brief moment, I laid aside my perceptions of sex and saw Dave’s perceptions. This sight softened me. I started to think about a facet of marriage I had put in the lowest priority, our relationship in the bedroom.
Dave’s emotional needs were wrapped up in sexual intimacy with me. Not only this, but God showed me that male physical sexual hunger is on a whole ‘nother level from female. Disclaimer: There are high drive wives who would argue this point.
I’ve tried to explain the male sexual drive here and here.
But, truly, the best insight comes from the male creature himself. That’s why I’m sharing Gary Thomas’ article with you today. It just might help another low-drive wife understand her husband’s heart a little better.
Here’s Gary:
What Your Husband May Never Tell You (and one thing every husband needs to do accordingly)
Also, Paul Byerly’s blog, The XY Code – Decoding the Male Mind, is another excellent resource for male to female translation. He writes short posts that explains, “man things that women can never fully understand,” in the words of an XY reader.
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