Friday, August 8, is the International Day of the Female Orgasm (IDFO)
IDFO was established in 2007 by José Arimatéia Dantas Lacerda, a Councilman in the town of Esperantina, Brazil. According to the Huffington Post, he was paying a ‘sexual debt’ he owed his wife. Was he a selfish lover, perhaps?
In years past, the intent of IDFO was to make love and ensure, if possible, orgasm for the wife. Recently, the focus of IDFO is shifting to include Female Sexuality Awareness.
With this new shift in mind, I’d like to propose we heighten our awareness and glorify God for his creation. Remember, my ongoing series for pre-orgasmic wives, A Window Into O’s? This series is for wives who have never, ever experienced orgasm.
If you are still in the state of orgasm potential (you have never experienced orgasm), why not commit to a day of research? I would suggest Saturday, August 9th, since most will have that day off work.
“For His invisible attributes, that is, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen since the creation of the world, being understood through what He has made….,” Romans 1:20.
God is the author and creator of our sexuality. Admire his design and explore what God created and He will see that as praise. Surrender yourself to Him by accepting His will for your marriage, that is an act of worship.
My pre-orgasmic friend, you may have struggled and struggled with sexual intimacy. It makes you mad. It is a constant conflict. Your husband can be a jerk. Maybe things are really good in all other aspects of your marriage, your body just doesn’t want to cooperate. Or, there are things from your past that cloud sexual intimacy and make it painful.
Pray over this! Surrender your anxiety over the unknowns. God truly does care about your marriage bed. God will honor you through this struggle. He will oversee your journey and bring unexpected resources.
After you read the linked article at the bottom, which leads to several tasteful posts focusing physiology and spirituality, I hope courage spurs you to explore.
I am proud of you for considering this step toward understanding your beauty as a female. Exploration will be part of your commitment to research your O-potential on August 8th.
I am proud of you for considering this step toward understanding your beauty as a female. Exploration will be part of your commitment to research your O-potential on August 8th.
There is no pressure, just preparation. Will you commit, my pre-orgasmic friend, to a little research? It will only entail a little peak at your nether regions.
If you want to be a part of this exercise:
Take a deep breath and tell your husband in a very direct manner that you are going to explore the body God gave you to increase your orgasm potential. You could even send him OysterBed7 links in an email. Maybe he isn’t fully aware of the elegance of your design, either.
Ask him to watch the children for you for an hour on Saturday. I am sure he will happily comply.
Until then read:
“A Window Into O’s,” look for more in this series:
Not to be picky, but August 8 is Friday, not Saturday. So, is the holiday Friday the 8th? or Saturday the 9th?
Holy Cow! That was poor editing on my part. It’s August 8, FRIDAY (TODAY!). But, you can still celebrate on Saturday, because I think it will be easier to explore when you have a day off….. Thanks for helping me clarify!!