


Illuminated Sex
Don’t do it in the dark. Men bond with what they see while climaxing. In Christian and Sexy, we briefly hit upon the fact that male brains release feel good chemicals when they see a female form. Let’s take this a step further and contemplate what is happening in...
My Son Broke Both of His Legs (and a marriage connection)
At 13, my oldest son broke both of his legs. The tibias in each leg were completely displaced, although not compound through the skin. The fibulas each had a more minor, but spiral type of fracture. He jumped from a 17 foot ledge with the intention of...
The Truth about Your Husband’s Sex Drive or Lack Thereof
I hear from high drive wives all the time. OysterBed7 is a desperate attempt for them to try to understand their sexually unresponsive husband, even though I never claim to have a handle on male low libido. My niche is female low libido. Statistics show 25% of wives...
How to Create Sexual Craving in Your Marriage or The Milk of Sexual Interest
The finest wine and food pairing pales in comparison to the delight of a PB&J sandwich made with soft white bread accompanied by a big ol’ glass of cold milk (unless you are lactose intolerant). Could I eat a PB&J sandwich without milk? Yes, but it...
Memorial Day 2015
I’ll probably never see his grave. My uncle, Herbert Logsdon, is buried at sea 1000’s of miles from the US in Leyte Bay, Manila. Uncle Herb was a sailor with a specific duty, aviation radioman. He died on October 30, 1944 when a kamikaze rammed his aircraft carrier,...
Little Known Peri-Menopause Symptom (Unending Period)
Hot Flash. She’s the diva of menopausal symptoms. Everyone has heard of her. For a few years, I’ve been dealing with several of her lesser known sisters. Low-Libido Night Sweat Heart Palpitation (Men, proceed reading at your own risk….) Recently, one of the least...
For the Aloha Pumehana Bedroom
“Aloha is literally the combination of two words. ‘Alo,’ means to be face to face or in the presence of. ‘Ha,’ means the breath of life. So, ‘aloha,’ means to be face to face, or exchanging, the breath of life. This is a kind...
For the John Denver Bedroom Soundtrack
Enjoy this lovely ballad, Perhaps Love, a duet by John Denver and Placido Domingo. Thanks to a friend for this suggestion! Click here to see why I offer eclectic music samplings for your lovemaking playlist. John Denver’s music accompanied my childhood (see the...