by Bonny Burns | Jan 12, 2020 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Interest, Sexual Intimacy, Word of God
While my young adult kids were here over the Christmas holiday, they binge watched a BBC show called, The Great British Bake-Off. You’ve probably seen it. Having a sweet tooth the size of a baked Alaska, I nearly can’t be in the same room when it’s on. It...
by Bonny Burns | Jan 8, 2020 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Resources, Sex Drive Transformation, Sexual Intimacy, Unlock Your Libido Ebook
Now is the perfect time to unlock your libido! It doesn’t take a magic eight ball to predict you have heard A LOT about resolutions and goals in the past few days since New Year’s was just a week ago. My expertise lies in helping ladies “of a...
by Bonny Burns | Jan 1, 2020 | Helps Sex Drive, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sex Drive Transformation, Sexual Intimacy
At any point in the year, you can decide to make a change. I, personally, like that there is a focus on change as the New Year rolls in. There is a little added motivation and support when lots of people are talking about the same thing. Band wagons aren’t...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 8, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
Disclaimers This post is intended for marriages where both spouses are good-willed, even if sexless. When in conflict, at times, your spouse may be grumpy and behave badly, just as you probably do. At each of your cores, however, you are loving and have only good...
by Bonny Burns | Jul 12, 2019 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Lubricants
(This post, shockingly, contains affiliate links. *wink*) “You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon,” Solomon says as he admires his bride (SOS 4:15). The best lovemaking has just enough blissful friction to allow sexual tension...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 19, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Pornography, Sexual Interest, Sexual Intimacy
Having dealt with pornography in our marriage, a reader recently asked me to respond to the idea that it is the wife’s obligation to keep her husband sexually satisfied so that he won’t lust. She asks, “What responsibility does the husband have to manage his...
by Bonny Burns | May 23, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy, Why Sex
Would you join me in welcoming, Julie Sibert, to Oysterbed7? Julie’s blog, Intimacy in Marriage, was one of the first Christian sex blogs that I began reading. Her authenticity and humor helped me understand that words like, “Christian,” and,...
by Bonny Burns | May 8, 2019 | Emotional Libido, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Uncategorized
Here’s why building a friendship is so important for wives with low sex drive. “Emotional libido” is a term I use sometimes to describe a wife’s desire to be sexual based upon her emotional connection to her husband. It is not physical...
by Bonny Burns | May 2, 2019 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy
“I hate sex, but I’m trying not to.” You might have landed on this blog because a phrase like this is running through your mind. I said a phrase very similar at the beginning of “phase 2” of our marriage. This blog was born in 2012 when I finally cleared...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 8, 2019 | Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Just For Fun, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy
Should wives with low sexual interest consider adventure in the bedroom? Although this blog is intended for wives with low sexual interest, a lot of their husbands are reading, too. Husbands are trying to figure out their wives. Here’s a message I recently...
