Hi friend! I made this video post just for you. Maybe you’ll find it encouraging.
By the world’s standards this post is tame. However, it still may not be suitable for work or if little ears are present. I would recommend earbuds.
Plus, on youtube there may be inappropriate videos recommended in your side bar because of the topic discussed here. I apologize for this, but have no control over the side bar.
I’d love to hear what you think about my suggestions in the comments.
For more on talking about sex out loud…
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Great tips and they are so true!
Thanks, Abra!
Nice job – great first video.
Thanks, Paul!
What kinds of things would you talk with your husband about? And how do you handle if you husband does’t seem to want to talk about sex (probably because thinking about sex caused me a lot of anxiety when we were engaged, and maybe it always seems like I want to talk about sex because there is an issue)…
To begin the conversation, so that he will not think the conversation has to do with problems, tell him some positives to set the tone for the conversation. Something like, “I want to make our lovemaking the most fulfilling possible. I want you to know that this and this are fantastic for me. Now, I want to ask you some questions…” What to discuss? For me, the most important element to discuss would be frequency. Is there a good balance for both of you? The second would be, “What aspect of sexual intimacy is important to you?” For example, do you each feel the other is ‘present’ enough during intimacy. Could variety be important? Could tenderness be important? I hope these suggestions are helpful. I will pray over you and your husband and that this conversation is approached with light and loving hearts. If you’d like to talk further, feel free to email me at pearlmail3@gmail.com.