If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.
(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)
Low libido wives are not sexually inadequate as the world touts. We are made to think if we don’t have the eternal fires of passion running through our veins, we are lacking. But, everyone is different. Every marriage is different. If you can ‘classify’ yourself as low-libido, there must be a mis-match of desires between the two of you. But, this doesn’t mean that you are inadequate. You are more than adequate. It just takes a little confidence in redefining your sexuality.
Sexual intimacy, being designed by God, has many great benefits, even and especially for the low libido wife! In my weakness, He has shown His strength.
Key 16
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are my ways your ways,”
Declares the Lord.
“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways,
and my thoughts higher than your thoughts,” Isaiah 55:8-9
“Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men,
and the weakness of God is stronger than men,” 1 Corinthians 1:25
Positive Thought (action verb: give)
I give myself permission to be a sexually interested. I give myself permission to enjoy the physical sensations and the positive emotional sensations. I give myself permission to be a sexually charged wife. I give myself permission to acknowledge that sexual intimacy with my husband is God ordained and to know that God is pleased with sexual intimacy.
