If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE.
(Husbands, if you are reading, you are invited to pray these scriptures and thoughts over your wives.)
Even though men aren’t wired for communication like women, words are equally powerful to both sexes.
I truly believe spoken words hold huge power. The words themselves don’t hold power. It’s the speaker who projects their energy. I don’t want to sound all mystical. But, what comes out of our mouths can do SO MUCH GOOD.
Have you seen the hero in your husband lately? If not, just look, because the hero is alive and well. We just need to speak to the hero to coax him out of the phone booth.
Usually, it’s just a simple statement. “You are my hero.”
My dad is a WWII vet, so he really is a hero. When my mom told him he was her hero, I could visibly see transformation within his spirit. He stood taller and was softened with humility and honor. He was her hero partly because of his naval service, but mostly because:
He went to work every day.
He took care of home maintenance.
He was very affectionate (hugs and kisses).
He made time to do stuff with mom.
These weren’t extraordinary characteristics. He was a simple guy. He did average guy things.
Sure, I occasionally heard about the stuff mom wasn’t happy about. No relationship is perfect. But, she didn’t dwell on that.
Push aside the reasons that tarnish your mister’s hero status. This Memorial Day Weekend tell the Superman who shares your bed 3 specifics of why he is your hero. I have found when people speak positive words into my life, I work harder to be worthy of those words. Your hero is worthy, let him know!
Not only will he stand taller, but you might need a reminder, too.
Part of our libido reclamation is being proud of who we married. Positive feelings build libido. Negative feelings do the exact opposite.
Week 21
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen,” Ephesians 4:29.
“So the Lord spoke kind and comforting words to the angel who talked with me,” Zechariah 1:12
Positive Affirmation (verb: celebrate)
I celebratesexual intimacy with my husband. I celebrate God-ordained sexual intimacy. I celebratethat my sexual interest is increasing every day.
Men love to be reminded of how much we appreciate them for sure. My man and I pick on each other a lot, but it’s done in love and he truly is my hero.
I’m stopping by from Happy Wives Club 🙂
Ooh, I like that positive affirmation. Haven’t quite seen one like that before :). And yes, my hubby is my hero for sure!
Thanks for stopping by, Fawn!
Love that positive affirmation. Never seen one like that before! And yes, my hubby is my hero! No one but God above him.
Words are SO incredibly powerful. The words that you use are creative and should be chosen carefully to create love and good feelings.
Absolutely love your challenge!
Thanks, Rhiannon! Yes, we need to be careful what comes out of our mouths.