Healthy godly sexuality
OysterBed7 Blog
How Care and Concern Can Help Your Sex Life
Healthy marriage, healthy sex life with the one-another Bible passages. Several years ago, I prepared for an endometrial ablation. After talking with veterans of the procedure and reading the informational material from the doctor’s office, I knew the first 36 hours...
Fear Not, Be Assured About Sex
Through all of my anxiety, in spite of my cheerful demeanor, I am majorly stressed out and anxious. Intellectually, I know this isn’t where God wants me to be. This reminds me of the season when sex majorly stressed me out. Intellectually, I knew that lack of sexual...
The Back Door (my take on anal sex)
Several of you have asked that I begin to address some more difficult topics, such as; oral sex, anal sex, sex toys, premarital sex, infidelity, pornography. Before I begin to address any difficult topic, I want you to be aware that the overarching goal of this blog...
Wow Factor in Marriage
Our south Florida home is finally under contract! So, we are spending a week in Knoxville, TN, house-hunting. We’ve already traipsed through dozens of houses but only a couple got me excited. They had Wow Factor. Wow Factor is a sudden rush of appreciation, almost...
Help! I’m Angry About Sex.
Two things: First, read to the end of this post for an opportunity to see me on a webinar. Second, I take the time to personally answer each email I receive. I haven’t made a habit of posting these questions and my answers, but I’ve decided that maybe more of you...
Grace In The Bedroom
I truly believe, at times, there is no harder place to extend grace than in the bedroom. It is because the pain of sexual betrayal slices into our soft innards. It shakes us like a mega earthquake. It shatters our confidence and stability. Afterall, we are naked...
Life Outside of the OysterBed (6th Blogversary edition)
I wanted to share with you some photos of our past year. My life isn't much different from yours. Quite a bit of time is spent working on the blog and podcast, but I have other interests and responsibilities. Liberty University Course Work I returned to full-time...