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3 Ways to Boost Sex Drive Through Exercise in Disguise
3 ways to boost sex drive through exercise in disguise (with affiliate links, gotta pay for those hosting fees!) It’s no secret that exercise is one of the cheapest ways to boost your sex drive. It has the added benefit of helping you get healthy, too! For those of...
6 Years Writing About Sex?!?
6 years ago, I started a Christian marriage blog that turned into a place of encouragement and mentorship for wives that struggle with physical sexual desire. Before the blog, Dave and I facilitated marriage classes. Unfortunately, his work schedule ramped up so...
How to Renovate Your Sex Life (31ish Thoughts)
I found a forgotten gem. I wrote this in honor of our 31st anniversary last August using the 31 traditional ice cream flavors of Baskin-Robbins for inspiration. In my excitement of having an anniversary getaway on Palm Beach, it didn’t get posted! (As a quick...
Ways to Align Mismatched Sex Drives
Even pastors and their wives deal with marriage messes. Beth Steffaniak, as a pastor’s wife, is honest about her messes in marriage. She writes about it at her appropriately titled blog, “Messy Marriage.” While she addresses a broad topic of marriage issues, she’s...
Simple Steps To Lead You To Sexual Interest (Sexual Interest Masterclass)
If you’ve read and How to Arouse Sexual Interest Through Emotional Connection and I'm Just Not In-Love With Him, you know that building an emotional connection between husband and wife is crucial for the spouse with low sex drive! In some marriages, retaining the...
Rethinking Low Libido: Are You Low Libido or Just Normal?
How many times have you been reluctant to have sex because you were tired, or stressed, or it just didn’t spark your interest at the moment and then, once you engaged, you got into it? If you’ve felt this way, you are not alone! I feel this way frequently and have...
What Is Sexual Interest? Why Should I Care?
Have you noticed I’ve transitioned from focusing on low libido to focusing on growing your sexual interest? It wasn’t anything I did intentionally. It was natural evolution. It was due, partly, to one of my Psychology classes at Liberty University. I learned that...