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Friendship Builds Sexual Interest

by Bonny Burns | Feb 2, 2020 | Emotional Libido, Helps Sex Drive, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Interest, Word of God

Healthy marriage, healthy sex life with the one another passages. Because some of us haven’t really seen a healthy marriage or we came into marriage with expectations that weren’t realistic, every Sunday throughout 2020, we will discuss what goes into...

Friendship 101: Just Talk (or the art of conversation)

by Bonny Burns | May 8, 2019 | Emotional Libido, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Uncategorized

Here’s why building a friendship is so important for wives with low sex drive. “Emotional libido” is a term I use sometimes to describe a wife’s desire to be sexual based upon her emotional connection to her husband. It is not physical...

Help! I’m Angry About Sex.

by Bonny Burns | Apr 11, 2018 | Anger, Emotional Libido, Helps Sex Drive, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Motherhood, Sexual Intimacy

Two things: First, read to the end of this post for an opportunity to see me on a webinar. Second, I take the time to personally answer each email I receive. I haven’t made a habit of posting these questions and my answers, but I’ve decided that maybe more of you...

Simple Steps To Lead You To Sexual Interest (Sexual Interest Masterclass)

by Bonny Burns | Mar 6, 2018 | Emotional Libido, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive

If you’ve read and How to Arouse Sexual Interest Through Emotional Connection and I’m Just Not In-Love With Him, you know that building an emotional connection between husband and wife is crucial for the spouse with low sex drive! In some marriages, retaining...

I’m Just Not In-Love With Him (Sexual Interest Masterclass)

by Bonny Burns | May 17, 2017 | Emotional Libido, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy

In my last post, How to Arouse Sexual Desire Through Emotional Connection, I explained how my sexual interest is driven by the emotional connection Dave and I have. If you are a low-libido wife, I want to help you understand this concept. I’m also asking husbands to...

How to Arouse Sexual Desire through Emotional Connection

by Bonny Burns | Apr 27, 2017 | Dynamic Marriage, Emotional Libido, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive

Welcome to the Sexual Interest Masterclass. This is the introductory post of a series to help marriages with mismatched sex drives. I’m driven by my emotional libido more than my physical libido. Most of us want to experience the raw, burning passion of sexual heat. ...

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Bonny Logsdon Burns

Hi, I’m Bonny. You’ll find understanding here for your struggle with sexual intimacy in marriage because I struggle, too. Whether your low sex drive is from a physical or emotional place, you’lI find gentle encouragment to consider the many dimensions of desire. Contact me at pearlmail3 @ gmail.com. Read more about me here, Blog Policies here.

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