


Grace In The Bedroom
I truly believe, at times, there is no harder place to extend grace than in the bedroom. It is because the pain of sexual betrayal slices into our soft innards. It shakes us like a mega earthquake. It shatters our confidence and stability. Afterall, we are naked...
Life Outside of the OysterBed (6th Blogversary edition)
I wanted to share with you some photos of our past year. My life isn’t much different from yours. Quite a bit of time is spent working on the blog and podcast, but I have other interests and responsibilities. Liberty University Course Work I returned to...
6 Years Writing About Sex?!?
6 years ago, I started a Christian marriage blog that turned into a place of encouragement and mentorship for wives that struggle with physical sexual desire. Before the blog, Dave and I facilitated marriage classes. Unfortunately, his work schedule ramped up so...
How to Renovate Your Sex Life (31ish Thoughts)
I found a forgotten gem. I wrote this in honor of our 31st anniversary last August using the 31 traditional ice cream flavors of Baskin-Robbins for inspiration. In my excitement of having an anniversary getaway on Palm Beach, it didn’t get posted! (As a quick...