by Bonny Burns | Oct 27, 2016 | Christian Marriage Blogger's Association, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy
Christian Marriage Bloggers are writing about this picture above during the month of October. Instead of first seeing passion in the red umbrella above, I see a big ol’ stop sign! I used to see conflict as a stop sign to my libido. Then I learned…....
by Bonny Burns | Oct 13, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Pornography, Prayer
With permission, I am sharing a true story of Christ’s redemption. This marriage seemed irreconcilable from the world’s point of view. However, this husband and wife chose to operate through God’s point of view. It’s a great honor to share Mel’s story. She and her...
by Bonny Burns | Aug 26, 2016 | Health, Inspire, Less Stress, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mental Health, Science of Sex, Sexual Intimacy
The Great Smiling Experiment As a teenage clerk at JCPenney, I was snapped at many times by grumpy, impatient Christmas shoppers. Because of this, I try to be thoughtful of store clerks especially during the holiday season. Interacting with one exceptionally dour...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 30, 2016 | Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy
It’s fourth of July weekend, the national Independence Day Holiday in the US. While the weekend usually revolves around your family, the grill, and culminates in a huge fireworks extravaganza, why not bring a few of those fireworks into your bedroom?...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 28, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Science of Sex, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
From a very very informal survey on my facebook pages, asking: “If money were no object, where would you spend your second honeymoon?” Some responders mentioned Germany and Italy, one mentioned outer space. But, 70% (16 out of 23) mentioned a tropical location. (Be...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 23, 2016 | Dynamic Marriage, Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Newlywed
At the most recent June wedding we attended, I was brought to tears by a tenor when he hit the high note in Mollette’s arrangement of “The Lord’s Prayer.” My goosebumps continued when the bells of the cathedral chimed for the newly minted “Mr. & Mrs.” We retired...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 21, 2016 | Beauty, Inspire, Modesty, Shame
‘Tis Summer. Hoards of people blanket the beach, lots of them in bikinis. My home is in a warm weather climate where shorts, flip flops, and tank tops are worn year round. Frankly, the heat is unbearable if you wear much more. Modesty levels can be affected by...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 16, 2016 | Sexual Intimacy
40 years of wandering for the Israelites! I couldn’t imagine 40 years of not being able to truly unpack, everything staying in boxes on the camel. I barely made it through 9 months of wandering without a major meltdown (there were a lot of minor ones). And to be...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 14, 2016 | Anne Atwell, Beauty, Body Image, Guest Author, High Drive Wife, Improve Married Sex, Sexual Intimacy
Anne Atwell’s voice is here to encourage my high drive readers, and to allow low-libido wives direct insight. I think it’s very important that the sisterhood of Christian women support each other. We do that by understanding we are all different and yet we...
by Bonny Burns | Jun 2, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sex Scheduling, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
Fleur left this comment on 5 Questions to Create a Sexual Encounter Schedule; “I am generally not a refuser and I would say my spouse and I generally have sex around three times a week. I wonder if you could clarify “my head kinda hurts or I’m tired” or...
