by Bonny Burns | Jun 1, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sex Scheduling, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
Although my intended audience is low-libido wives, after answering a curious husband’s question on 13 Ways My Husband Influenced My Sex Drive, another husband has emailed me with a question. He says, “I’ve sent my wife a couple of your articles recently. They have...
by Bonny Burns | May 25, 2016 | Aphrodisiacs, Biblical stories of sex, Health, Improve Married Sex, Low Sex Drive, Menopause, Science of Sex, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
Could this be why tradition links the Garden of Eden’s forbidden fruit with apples and sex? Apples have the ability to sexually stimulate arousal in women according to Italian researchers. Their 2014 findings were published in the journal of Archives of...
by Bonny Burns | May 12, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Low Sex Drive, Science of Sex, Sexual Intimacy
Recently, I virtually attended a class that explored the relationship between love, romance, and essential oils. The facilitator was so knowledgeable that I invited her to share with you! Essential oils may or may not be of interest to you. Either way, please...
by Bonny Burns | May 4, 2016 | Sexual Intimacy
Recently, I learned a little more about my entrance into the world. Dad directed a strange statement my way during the last year of his life. Uninhibited by the stroke he said, “I’m sure glad we kept you.” At first I thought he was just teasing, but soon realized...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 28, 2016 | Guest Author, Keelie Reason, Sexual Intimacy
Welcome Keelie from lovehopeadventure.com. I’m so grateful she’s taken the time to address a sensitive low-libido topic – shame. Maybe you will relate to some of what she has to say. Keelie is a sincere and sweet wife who truly wants to...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 19, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexless Marriage, Word of God
The call of Abraham has been on my mind a lot lately. Genesis 12 tells us about this guy, Abram, who lives in the land of Ur. God instructs Abram to pack up and leave. While in Ur, before the summons to leave, it seems Abram prospered. He accumulated possessions and...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 24, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy
Love and Robinson, authors of Hot Monogamy, state that couples who can converse together comfortably about their sex life rate their sex life as more satisfying. The Forgiven Wife has started a new series, Stepping out of your Comfort Zone. In Friday’s post she...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 22, 2016 | Ezer K'negdo, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Word of God
A small study on ezer k’negdo, the Hebrew word that is typically translated as helpmeet in Genesis 2:18. Let’s look at some Bible verses. Please stick with me. Ezer The word I want you to look for in each section is help. The Hebrew word for help in each verse...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 17, 2016 | Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Word of God
People have asked me why I named this blog OysterBed7. Even though I write about sex a lot, it had little to do with being an aphrodisiac and much to do with lustrous pearls. When a piece of grit (sand or bacteria) annoys an oyster, the oyster secretes...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 15, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Spiritual Intimacy
This is week 30 of Unlock Your Libido: 52-week Sex Drive Transformation. This introductory post explains what it’s all about. I gave myself permission to do something I’ve never done before. It’s not something that is wrong. But, some people have a...
