by Bonny Burns | Mar 10, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Science of Sex, Sex Drive Transformation
“How do you get the tingly feeling back? I love my husband, love making love with him, but generally the feelings I have when he touches me is ‘safe/secure/comfortable,’ not the ‘new/exciting/tingling’ feelings,” asks a reader commenting on Week 6: Sex Drive...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 8, 2016 | Bioidentical hormones, Bonny's Journey, Exercise, Health, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Science of Sex
The elusive female libido. Most people think that a young wife has no trouble with libido. Which isn’t necessarily true. Numbers are beginning to say it isn’t uncommon for the 18-30 year old female to suffer low libido. For married ladies with or...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 3, 2016 | Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy, Science of Sex, Sexual Intimacy
I like to know, “Why?” And I lean toward the scientific side. When my libido did a Houdini and disappeared, I wondered whether I’d ever again physically yearn for sex and questioned why a libido was necessary? I went as far to question why sex was even...
by Bonny Burns | Mar 1, 2016 | Blogging, Bonny's Journey, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive
4 years ago, March 2012, I started writing for the low sex drive Christian wife. There were several amazing Christian sex-positive blogs at that time, but none of them had a low libido wife’s perspective on the marriage bed. God purposed me to speak and write about...
by Bonny Burns | Feb 25, 2016 | High Drive Wife
When “I Love My High Drive Sisters,” published there was positive reaction from my high drive readers. Why would a low-libido blog have high drive readers? High drive wives have a tough time finding their virtual community, so they land here in desperation because I...
by Bonny Burns | Feb 23, 2016 | Bonny's Journey, Dynamic Marriage, Emotional Libido, Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
Although my intended audience is low-libido wives, recently a husband left this comment, “I read your blog to help me understand my no drive wife…..….There is no hope after so many years of this. I know everyone’s different but any insight into what your husband did...
by Bonny Burns | Feb 16, 2016 | Anne Atwell, High Drive Wife
When “I Love My High Drive Sisters,” published there was positive reaction from my high drive readers. Why would a low-libido blog have high drive readers? High drive wives have a tough time finding their virtual community, so they land here in desperation because I...
by Bonny Burns | Feb 11, 2016 | Book & Movie Review
Are you in a marriage that’s been struggling for awhile? Like, since day 1? Do your marriage dynamics fall into the general category of dominant wife married to a passive husband? If so then, April Cassidy’s book, The Peaceful Wife; living in submission to Christ as...
by Bonny Burns | Feb 4, 2016 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Just For Fun, Low Sex Drive, Valentine's Day
I love cake like some people love ice cream. One day, while decorating cupcakes with icing and sprinkles, it dawned on me that I could use icing to ‘glue’ little yummies to my body! (I don’t always think of sex, let alone sex while cooking, but when I do,...
by Bonny Burns | Jan 28, 2016 | Anne Atwell, High Drive Wife, Sexual Intimacy
When “I Love My High Drive Sisters,” published there was positive reaction from my high drive readers. Why would a low-libido blog have high drive readers? High drive wives have a tough time finding their virtual community, so they land here in desperation because I...
