Santa Baby Bedroom Soundtrack Playlist
Does music stir your soul and affect your mood? It does mine. Music can stimulate the same parts of the brain as food and sex. Music can change the atmosphere of a ‘rendezvous’ in a drum beat. That’s why I began offering Bedroom Soundtracks,...
Permission to Feel Beautiful
For a long while I was not in a good place with sexual intimacy and part of the struggle was trying to reconcile the inner beauty/outer beauty mindset. Scripture seemed to tell me inner beauty was the only thing of value. However, my husband likes me wearing makeup...
Who Makes You Valuable
I’m not very valuable by the world’s standards. When I feel small, I feel scared. When I’m reminded where my true value lies, I feel courageous. When I’m feeling courageous, fear disappears and love starts to grow. Courage helps all areas of your life,...
I Love Knowing When Sex is Going to Happen
This is the last installment of Bonny’s, ‘chicken’s guide to talking turkery about sex with your husband.’* See, “I Love Starting the Sex Conversation,” and, “I Love Compassionate Blunt Sex Talk.” “How often?” Is likely to be your high drive spouse’s biggest...
I Love Gently Blunt Sex Conversations
Yesterday, we discussed how to approach a conversation about sexual intimacy. Why have this conversation if you are a low sex-drive spouse? As much as we low-libido’s like to deny it, sex really is part of a thriving marriage. If you keep avoiding sex,...
I Love Starting the Sex Conversation
There’s this marriage. One spouse is dying to get horizontal and the other is running to stay vertical. They both know that sex is a problem, yet have never had a sane discussion about it. Here’s the first step to turn a near sexless marriage into a...
Here, Have a Laugh! (Tim Hawkins Video)
Yesterday: I Love Laughing Leads to Sexual Desire Today: Here, Have a Laugh! Yesterday, I talked about all the benefits of laughter. Did you know laughter and orgasm go hand in hand? What if you are having trouble pumping up laughter from the deep well of your...
I Love Laughter Leads to Sexual Interest
“Because he makes me laugh,” is one of the most common responses for why we fall in love. I love to laugh and wanted to laugh with my prat-falling, pun-meister, Dave, for the rest of our lives. I gasped, then laughed, the moment I first met Dave and he didn’t say a...
I Love “Friendship Closes Its Eyes”
The faults of our lover are invisible during the sweet juicy tingle of first love. It’s not just denial. First love is completely oblivious to failings. It’s a neurochemical thing. Give marriage a few years and faults blink like an annoying...Bonny Logsdon Burns
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