by Bonny Burns | Nov 12, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Prayer, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy
I would have rather slammed my pinky finger in the car door than to have talked about sex. The ‘talks’ my husband and I were having about sex, weren’t really ‘talks’ but anger fueled spats. We didn’t know how to have an actual conversation without it being...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 11, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Travel
I’m writing you from gate C6. I’m flying to meet my granddaughter for the very first time. I’d almost, almost, rather endure my yearly visit to the gyn, than get on this oversized bumblebee. Flying is not my favorite. This didn’t used to be the case. My...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 9, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexual Intimacy
Even though I’m a vanilla sex kinda girl, I am occasionally up for some variety. But, that’s not the kind of positioning I’m talking about here. I love when the light bulb goes off and you become aware of another way to approach your marriage bed conflict. ...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 8, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Relational Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Warfare, Word of God
There are seasons of Babylonian exile in marriage. The Lord’s presence seems far away. We yearn for comfort. Ezekiel is a prophet living among the exiles in Babylon. His message is from God to the exiled nation of Israel. Worshipping false gods has...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 7, 2015 | Books I Recommend, Improve Married Sex, Resources
Here’s my list of recommeded books while on your journey to a more full libido. Surprisingly, my list is not exclusively sex books. The secret to libido is nurturing all aspects of your life. My spiciness simmers when I’m feeling like an empowered...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 6, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Zombie
Back…way back….when there was no internet, I used to spend three hours a day watching, “General Hospital,” “All My Children,” and “One Life to Live,” in that order. I saw my fascination with these soap operas grow and grow. I couldn’t get...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 5, 2015 | Bonny's Journey, Ezer K'negdo, High Drive Wife, Improve Married Sex, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
I received my formal education during a time when it was thought there were no radical biological/psychological differences between male and female. Males and females took on certain traditional roles because that is what was taught. I embraced this theory because it...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 4, 2015 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy
I love that sexual intimacy brings new life. The summer we had a drought the grass was crispy under foot. Then, a good rain came along and the grass perked up. After a few more good soakings, the lawn was a lush, verdant bed. Sexual intimacy nourishes a marriage...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 3, 2015 | Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy, Word of God
I love my higher drive sisters. Right now, more than any other time in my life, I can relate to the yearning of a higher drive wife. My husband and I have been apart much this year due to my helping ill family members and now his job relocation. I miss...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 2, 2015 | Biblical stories of sex, Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Promote Love Of Sexual Intimacy
I love God’s Design of Sex “…male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, ‘Be fruitful and increase in number, fill the earth and subdue it,’……God saw all that he had made and it was very good…” Genesis 1:27-31. Everything...
