


How A Husband Can Help
All wives are unique and wonderful, but some have not yet achieved orgasm or have a very difficult time with arousal. Here is my advice for husbands of beautiful nearly-there women. After yesterday’s post, I know y’all are waiting for me to unveil the secret to...
Orgasms Make You Squeamish? It’s OK To Explore Your Body
Orgasms make you squeamish? If you are pre-orgasmic or have achieved orgasm but arousal is difficult, it is perfectly OK for you to feel agitated or annoyed when this subject comes up. I hear you, “Doesn’t the world focus on this enough, even the Christian sex...
O Explore: International Day of the Female Orgasm
Friday, August 8, is the International Day of the Female Orgasm (IDFO) IDFO was established in 2007 by José Arimatéia Dantas Lacerda, a Councilman in the town of Esperantina, Brazil. According to the Huffington Post, he was paying a ‘sexual debt’ he owed his wife. ...
A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 20
Dear 20-year-old Bonny, Do you remember when you were about 15 praying for a husband who would make you sizzle? Well, God heard. Of course, you already know that you and your new husband shared steamy chemistry. Because of that, you two learn to be lovers before...
God’s Map: The Perfect Guide to Sexual Unknowns
I overplan for life. I consider every variation of circumstance and overplan accordingly. There must not be an element of mystery. I overpack when traveling. “I must have multiple outfits per day. You never know what the dress code of La Casa de McDonald’s will...
Wish You Were Here (at SheSpeaks 2014)
I made it to the airport in Charlotte on Wednesday just in time to pick up Chris curbside. What do you call a first meeting that feels more like a reunion? We managed to miss a few turns on the way to the hotel because our chatting was way more important...
How Do I Forgive Her of Past Lovers?
After Is My Husband Comparing Me to Former Lovers posted, I received several messages from men. This is in response to those emails. She’s wearing white under false pretenses. You know the truth. She was the perfect girl, so sweet and helpful and uplifting. ...
A Key to Understanding Orgasm: Deep Spots
A Window into O’s (as in orgasm) is a series dedicated to empowering my pre-orgasmic friend. The more you know about something, the less mysterious it is. Understanding how our bodies respond to sexual stimulus, helps us envision the path to an orgasm. God created...