


The Proposal
Our middle son, J, put his head together with the heads of several fine, upstanding, clueless, young friends and the team came up with a strategy of romance. Our oldest son (already married) gave his younger brother some valuable words of wisdom which solidified...
She said, “Yes!” Now What? Premarital Skills
I have been bursting to share this with you! There is going to be a wedding!Son #2 ran the ‘asking-blended-family-for-his-beauty’s–hand-in-marriage’ gauntlet. First a conversation with biological dad, then with step-dad and then with biological mom. ...
What Spurred My Thaw?
The focus of OysterBed7 is to encourage my low libido sisters. What makes a wife low-libido? There can be several reasons. But, I mainly focus upon low sexual desire due to physical, emotional, and spiritual issues. It could specifically be due to poor relational...Treading Water
In a rare empty hour, Mr. Muscle and I recently watched a western on Netflix. Amidst a horse chase, the sky darkened and rain erupted from the heavens. The riders were winding through a narrow canyon. The canyon itself was carved from the erosion of...
12 Things My Mom Said About Marriage
I had no idea my parents were crazy about each other. Wasn’t it commonplace for dads to daily wrap moms up in a warm embrace? Didn’t all parents hold hands everywhere? What dad didn’t walk in from work and plant a smooch on mom right there in the middle of the...
Weep and Rejoice
Pain is a constant companion this week. Not physical pain, but emotional and spiritual pain. It’s not my pain, at least not all of it. It is the pain of others. We lost a young friend to cancer this week. He and his wife were in one of...
“O” Zones: The Delightful Urethral Sponge
Did you catch the latest post in OysterBed7’s Orgasm series, The Exquisite Clitoris and Company? I was aware of the general existence of the internal clitoral structures, but researching that post, and finding so many hidden pleasure structures in the female fun zone...
A Key to Understanding Orgasm: The Exquisite Clitoris and Company
A Window into O’s (as in orgasm) is a series dedicated to my friends who are in a state of pre-orgasm. They have not experienced an orgasm, yet. 10-15% of women say they have never had the experience. (Please see, A Window into O’s: Introduction) It would be easy...