by Bonny Burns | Jan 16, 2018 | Health, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Science of Sex
One of the simple pleasures in my life is sipping a cup of coffee while savoring a slice of dense coconut cake iced with 7-minute frosting. I might follow that with a chocolate chip biscotti, then maybe a sugar cookie coated in crystalline granules and then possibly...
by Bonny Burns | Jan 9, 2018 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive
These 10 posts are what people are finding interesting at OysterBed7. If you missed one, go check it out! The most unusual search that keeps landing people on my blog is… Will Vick’s Vapor Rub Help My Sex Drive? From 2014, this has been the ninth favorite… A Key to...
by Bonny Burns | Jan 2, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, New Year's, Sexless Marriage, Sexual Intimacy
January 1st hands us an opportunity for better. It’s an opportunity to add new helpful habits or take away old harmful habits from your life. Either way, adding or subtracting, the ultimate goal is to move toward something better, becoming more. For us who struggle...
by Bonny Burns | Dec 25, 2017 | Christmas, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive
Merry Christmas, friends! I hope that each of you experienced some Christmas joy. For me, Christmas joy is spending time with our children. Our 3 sons and their families converged on our south Florida home last week. Then, as a group we went to the Bahamas for a few...
by Bonny Burns | Dec 18, 2017 | Christmas, Inspire, Just For Fun, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive
What is your earliest Christmas memory? My earliest memory is seeing, Snow White and the Three Stooges, with my dad. His workplace organized a special function for employees and their children. Although it wasn’t exactly a Christmas themed movie, Santa was in...
by Bonny Burns | Dec 12, 2017 | Health, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Menopause, Sexual Intimacy
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by Bonny Burns | Dec 4, 2017 | Christmas, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy
Right behind body image, stress and exhaustion are low sex drive culprits. Our bodies, souls, and minds weren’t designed for the bombardment of continual stimulation Christmas season gives us. Say no to say yes. So, as we look December straight in the eye, I want to...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 29, 2017 | Christmas, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Relational Intimacy
Not everyone is a chatty conversationalist. But, I believe it is very important even for the most introverted person to communicate verbally to their spouse. How can they know you if you don’t talk (and texting only counts if you’re Stephen Hawking). Conversation...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 22, 2017 | Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Thankfulness, Thanksgiving
I am so grateful for you! Not only do you open up my sporadic posts and read them, you click over to the podcast and you leave kind words on both. If you find my words helpful, God gets all the glory for that! Most of all, thank you for making your marriage and...
by Bonny Burns | Nov 14, 2017 | Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sex Chat 4 Christian Wives, Sexual Pollution/Immorality
If you listen to this week’s podcast, (a #metoo response) you’ll hear that I’ve been dealing with sexual harassment, in some form, since I was 4 years old. Although I don’t recount my entire life on the podcast (the link is at the end of this post), my...