Life Outside of the OysterBed (6th Blogversary edition)
I wanted to share with you some photos of our past year. My life isn’t much different from yours. Quite a bit of time is spent working on the blog and podcast, but I have other interests and responsibilities. Liberty University Course Work I returned to...
6 Years Writing About Sex?!?
6 years ago, I started a Christian marriage blog that turned into a place of encouragement and mentorship for wives that struggle with physical sexual desire. Before the blog, Dave and I facilitated marriage classes. Unfortunately, his work schedule ramped up so...
How to Renovate Your Sex Life (31ish Thoughts)
I found a forgotten gem. I wrote this in honor of our 31st anniversary last August using the 31 traditional ice cream flavors of Baskin-Robbins for inspiration. In my excitement of having an anniversary getaway on Palm Beach, it didn’t get posted! (As a quick...
Ways to Align Mismatched Sex Drives
Even pastors and their wives deal with marriage messes. Beth Steffaniak, as a pastor’s wife, is honest about her messes in marriage. She writes about it at her appropriately titled blog, “Messy Marriage.” While she addresses a broad topic of marriage issues, she’s...
Simple Steps To Lead You To Sexual Interest (Sexual Interest Masterclass)
If you’ve read and How to Arouse Sexual Interest Through Emotional Connection and I’m Just Not In-Love With Him, you know that building an emotional connection between husband and wife is crucial for the spouse with low sex drive! In some marriages, retaining...
Rethinking Low Libido: Are You Low Libido or Just Normal?
How many times have you been reluctant to have sex because you were tired, or stressed, or it just didn’t spark your interest at the moment and then, once you engaged, you got into it? If you’ve felt this way, you are not alone! I feel this way frequently and have...
What Is Sexual Interest? Why Should I Care?
Have you noticed I’ve transitioned from focusing on low libido to focusing on growing your sexual interest? It wasn’t anything I did intentionally. It was natural evolution. It was due, partly, to one of my Psychology classes at Liberty University. I learned that...
15 Flirty, Corny, Steamy SFW Texts for Valentine’s Day
What better day to send virtual love notes than Valentine’s? A flirty text is a great way to steam up the windows of your marriage and connect with your spouse through the day. All it takes is 20 seconds to tap out two little sentences. Those few seconds will be...
Podcast Listening for Beginners and a Giveaway!
Podcasting, first known as “audioblogging,” became a thing in 2004. Even though it’s been around for 13 years, some are just beginning to grab hold of the concept. So, if you are not sure about how to listen to our podcast, Sex Chat for Christian Wives, you are not...Bonny Logsdon Burns
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