by Bonny Burns | Jun 7, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive, Sexual Interest
If you are in a marriage with mismatched sex drives, it’s imperative to understand about love languages. That’s why not long ago I wrote “Why Knowing Your Low Drive Wife’s Love Language Is Important.” Speaking a person’s “love language,” is also known as making...
by Bonny Burns | May 31, 2018 | Improve Married Sex, Inspire, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Interest, Sexual Intimacy
What does feeling great about yourself have to do with your inner sensuality? A lot, actually. When you feel great about yourself you are relaxed, confident, and upbeat. When you feel great about yourself, worry takes a backseat. When you feel great about yourself,...
by Bonny Burns | May 17, 2018 | Husbands, Improve Married Sex, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy
Just as low drive (LD) wives often don’t understand the high drive (HD) spouses’ deep hunger for sexual intimacy. Usually, the HD spouse doesn’t understand the LD’s spouse craving for non-sexual things like positive words, acts of service, and touch that does not...
by Bonny Burns | May 13, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy, Special Days
We may not all be mama’s, but we all had a mama. Here’s to all the mama’s who are keeping it real, keeping it together, and keeping it moderately spicey in the bedroom. 🙂...
by Bonny Burns | May 9, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sex Chat 4 Christian Wives
Today, I share two Sex Chat for Christian Wives’ podcast episodes. They are brimming with advice to get steamy for some lovemaking. Check them out! Getting in the Mood – This is our very first episode! Getting in the Mood 2 – This is our most recent...
by Bonny Burns | May 2, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Mismatched Sex Drive
Recently, I had the privilege of joining sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese of Fully Well, for a conversation about mismatched sex drives. It’s no surprise that I spoke representing the lower half of the couple. The thing is you can move low sexual interest...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 29, 2018 | Less Stress, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Word of God
Through all of my anxiety, in spite of my cheerful demeanor, I am majorly stressed out and anxious. Intellectually, I know this isn’t where God wants me to be. This reminds me of the season when sex majorly stressed me out. Intellectually, I knew that lack of sexual...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 25, 2018 | Anal Play, Anal Sex, Anatomy, Difficult Topic, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive
Several of you have asked that I begin to address some more difficult topics, such as; oral sex, anal sex, sex toys, premarital sex, infidelity, pornography. Before I begin to address any difficult topic, I want you to be aware that the overarching goal of this blog...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 18, 2018 | Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Sexual Intimacy
Our south Florida home is finally under contract! So, we are spending a week in Knoxville, TN, house-hunting. We’ve already traipsed through dozens of houses but only a couple got me excited. They had Wow Factor. Wow Factor is a sudden rush of appreciation, almost...
by Bonny Burns | Apr 11, 2018 | Anger, Emotional Libido, Helps Sex Drive, Lift Low Libido, Low Libido Wife, Low Sex Drive, Motherhood, Sexual Intimacy
Two things: First, read to the end of this post for an opportunity to see me on a webinar. Second, I take the time to personally answer each email I receive. I haven’t made a habit of posting these questions and my answers, but I’ve decided that maybe more of you...
